save the drama, save the world

title of this blog taken from joyz… thanks friend!i am soo loving the title! you are indeed brilliant!

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around the last quarter of the passed year, i was ranting and blogging about a friendship gone sour, of falling out and basically my own opinion about the whole issue of leaving a certain circle of "friends".

for me, the issue died down early this year… my last post about the whole falling out thing was way back in january of this year. it came to a point that i will no longer make an effort to save a friendship that clearly does not need saving… of course i was hopeful, but waiting for nothing is pointless, and i have grown tired of it… i decided to move on…

but lo and behold! the issue got resurrected! and here i was, thinking that my friendster account is dying or close to that… not much activity there… and yet… apparently, just recently, the "friends" were able to read my friendster blog.

and major reactions filled my cellphone through their text messages which was simultaneously sent just this weekend… and major reactions there were…  

girl1 said: alangan man buong buhay mi na lng ika susuyuon…grbe ka man prinz…ok may kulog boot ka samu pero sana man lng pgkaulay mo muna kmi ning toltol..ds is just a reaction duman sa mga pgpost mo,kung makulugan ka sna maicp mo na foul man c mga tgpost mo 4 us..

girl1 said: …an kmi ngpalit #s para d mo kmi makontak..igwa man bga kta pgiribahan,pangit ang arog kayan na patutsadahan neh.harapan kung gus2 para toltol ang urulay..c patas lng na laraban..late ang reaction mi kc now pa lng nahiling sa blog mo..d totoo na di ni ika pginvite kc pgkontak mi gbos and every year naman bga mi pa naaaraman na nguli ka plan..so hu ang mas may karapatan mgtampo..ako ngttxt man saimu pero mski smiley mau.how can u say na disgrace kmi?e ika plan mau na sna?wat problema mo?o c reply duman mo na naman ilalaag!anu nangyari sa prinz na nabsto mi?prinz ika ang nagrayo samu remembr?

girl2 said:  musta prinz? ayos ka pa???tano arog kaito?sori,super late reaction noh.dai mi ika pg invyt?!prmi daw kta ngxxmas party.ano palan si txt ni mimay na wen ka mauli?others lng prinz ang pgiinvyt ta party ta daw ito.tpos arog kaito pig isip mo na dai ka invyted grbe man,arog na kayan pghiling mo samo?grow up palan??ano c gnibo mo?pgblog man lng noh tpos nbsa kang halos gbos.ayos ah.tsk.tsk.tsk.tsk.applause man 4 u.standing ovation pa.hbo ko kuta mag arog kaini,kya lng prinz super foul ka na.disgrace palan?!?!sna napaturog ka sa pgsbi mo. :’(

girl3 said:  sna lng nrealze mo kung gano mo kmi nkulugan sa mga cnbi mo..for the record po,we tried our best to contact u..i even txtd u to confrm if u can mke it to d prty or not..pero u didn’t even rply..& in d 1st plce prnz,weren’t u d 1 hu turnd ur back on us?! evn beggd u na dai mn kaipuhan mgabot sa arog kd2ng point,na maaayos yn in tym..tpos ngnyn,may gana ka p mghina2kit smo dhl lng sa xms prty?kala k hbo m n mki-brkda smo?to tel u honestly,nghina2kit mn kmi kng ngsbi kang masuway k n smo..pero c reaction mi,arog ba kng gnibo mo?bko man di ba!we nevr did anything na ika2raot m s ibng tao!kung may gusto ka kuta isabi,pwde m mn bga kmi icontact..dai na kaipuhan png ibroadcast d ba?s totoo lng,hbo ko na kuta mgpradag2 pa s cnbi nnda bcoz as mch as possble,gs2 ko maayos pa ni.. kya lng we wer rily hurt, so we cant let it pass lng..

girl4 said: thank you sa bday greetings m. dai k nabasa ta 4 sure kasali 2 sa na delete all ko. hinapot ko kung wen ka uli kang dec 4 d saken aram k lang… y pa kaipuhan invitation?! 

honestly, the moment i read their messages, i laughed… not the kind of reaction they might be expecting at that moment… but i just had to laugh it off… it has been months! and i already moved on… i had given it enough thought and enough is enough… i just moved on… for i am now happy with my life,  with my family, with my career, and with my REAL and TRUE friends. 

judging from all their messages which were conveniently similar with each one, they were all focusing about the fact that i was being such a baby of not being "invited" to the annual christmas party… what is this? an episode of gossip girl? that being invited to blair waldorf’s kiss on the lips party is such an important event that i would just kill myself over if i was not invited to take part in it??!! 

but you see, they are missing the point. this is not just about the "uninvited issue", this was about  the whole  FG thing. when the cyberword war broke out between me and D, where were they? i needed friends at that time and yet they fell silent. my rants and opinions fell on deaf ears and i never felt so alone at that point. that instance made me re-think and re-assess the friendship and i decided to leave.

and here they are, sounding high and mighty, telling me what i did was foul and that they got hurt with what i said in my blog… my blog! since when was blogging a crime? what happened to freedom of speech? 

yes, what i said was harsh, but that was what i was feeling at that time. i got hurt too you know… i too am human.

i appreciate all your reactions but it’s just a little too late… just save me the drama.

"It’s often said that no matter the truth, people see what they want to see. Some people might take a step back and find out that they were looking at the same big picture all along. Some people might see that their lies have almost caught up to them. Some people may see what was there all along. And then there are those other people, the ones that run as far as they can so they don’t have to look at themselves. And as for me, I can see clearly now. Xoxo, Gossip Girl."